Matthew 18:35
“So
will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgives your brother
from your heart.”
It is always easy to
say, “I forgive you”. What is difficult
to do is to forgive fully and forgive from the heart. Our sinful flesh has a high resistance to
laying offenses aside – we always want to take revenge. We want others to suffer as we suffer. Within our vicious mind, retaliation is most
often not an option, but rather it's a driving force – the only option - it has
to get even!
Learning to forgive implies that
forgiveness is a learned process, not an automatic response. It could be 7 times. It could be seventy-seven times. And it may even be seventy times seven. The Lord doesn’t and will not care how many
times you do it. What he expects us to
do is to do it repeatedly.
And we have to do it from the heart –
forgiving and then forgetting. For how
can we ask God to forgive our sins, when we ourselves cannot forgive
others? How can we ask God to give us
what we need, when we ourselves cannot give to others what they need?
Learning to forgive begins with
understanding what God says about forgiveness in the Bible. Our Christian life should be a changed
life. We should forgive others no matter
how many times they sin, as we live a progressively more holy life as we grow
closer to Christ.
“For Christ died for sins once for all, the
righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God” (1 Peter 3:18). “In him we have redemption through his blood,
the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God's grace” (Ephesians
1:7).
When was the last time you forgave someone
of his sin? Have you done it straight
from the heart?
Let us pray +
Almighty Father, forgive us our sins as we
forgive those who sin against us.
Solidify our understanding of forgiveness as you have done for us. Amen +
Remember your mercies, O Lord.
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